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How to be an influencer 101

As social media continues to grow so do Influencers. Even just a few years ago influencers meant celebrities. People with large followings, lots of money, and a bit of influence over what people buy. Most brands become popular simply because they found a celebrity or 2 to promote their product. Once that celebrity started wearing it— everyone wanted it.  Fortunately today celebrities aren’t the only people getting brand deals. Influencers now range from very few followers to millions of followers. Just about anyone can be an influencer now. But no body tells you how. It’s simple though. Talk to the brands. I know. No one wants to hear how something so complicated is actually pretty easy. Everyone wants to act like you have to have tons of followers and a decent stack of cash in your bank at all times but that’s not the reality. Today I wanna tell people like me, people who say “I can’t do that because I’m not rich” people who say “well I don’t have a big enough following”, that
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